tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8697967492776217409.post7255832502981545208..comments2023-11-02T01:55:10.254-06:00Comments on Cranberry Fries: Marriage Monday: Sleep On ItCranberryfrieshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04384164423414892482noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8697967492776217409.post-19164653164958807102011-02-08T20:16:15.345-07:002011-02-08T20:16:15.345-07:00I can NOT imagine going to bed with bad feelings. ...I can NOT imagine going to bed with bad feelings. I was counseled early in my marriage to NEVER go to bed without working disagreements out... I took that to the extent of NEVER go to bed without working thing out and having feelings of love and peace with my husband. Consequetnly, I CAN'T SLEEP unless we FIRST resolve things and "make out"... I mean "make up." ;D LOL<brCorine Moorehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05353150427363546277noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8697967492776217409.post-28502626073422219982011-02-08T08:19:37.863-07:002011-02-08T08:19:37.863-07:00Debbie- I love your Marriage Monday posts! They al...Debbie- I love your Marriage Monday posts! They always make me stop and think about what I can actively be doing to create a better relationship with my husband. But the beauty of it is, like the ripple effect, it doesn't just help me be a good wife, it helps me be a better mom and a better friend!<br /><br />Thank you! :)Kaylahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02334709541074434477noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8697967492776217409.post-70650573434705555672011-02-07T22:11:08.198-07:002011-02-07T22:11:08.198-07:00I agree too! I like that you added that you should...I agree too! I like that you added that you should set a time to talk the next day though. You don't want to go to bed seething if you can avoid it. I'm pretty lucky though, my cute hubby is the peacemaker. He can't stand more 10 minutes of a bad-vibe before he wants to make peace.Heidihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01157205531624676712noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8697967492776217409.post-68210329715971760862011-02-07T15:31:49.004-07:002011-02-07T15:31:49.004-07:00Everything is better after sleep!Everything is better after sleep!Olivia Carterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14215218666225556567noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8697967492776217409.post-4805851464959505312011-02-07T13:34:39.295-07:002011-02-07T13:34:39.295-07:00I agree wholeheartedly. Sometimes the problem goes...I agree wholeheartedly. Sometimes the problem goes away with a good night's sleep and sometimes the extra time to think about it lets you dig down to the real underlying issues because as I learned relatively recently is that "it's never really about the dishes."robhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10574225540891395582noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8697967492776217409.post-13377105209008888172011-02-07T12:28:25.375-07:002011-02-07T12:28:25.375-07:00Thank you so much for posting this! I hate when pe...Thank you so much for posting this! I hate when people give newlyweds the advice that you should never go to bed angry. It's so untrue. You should definitely always talk about your annoyances or fights or whatever, but sometimes time is a great tool for cooling off or getting in a more humble frame of mind.<br /><br />Also, my other advice for newlyweds because I think so many people go Jenni Elysehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08403700912436098391noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8697967492776217409.post-28235332464920560692011-02-07T10:53:00.523-07:002011-02-07T10:53:00.523-07:00I have to admit, it kind of annoys me when people ...I have to admit, it kind of annoys me when people give that advice. There have been times in my marriage that I've gone to bed so angry, just to wake up and realize, it's not that big of a deal. One thing I do try to do is even if we are angry, I still give my hubby a kiss goodnight. Sometimes just that simple kiss is enough to bring me back to reality and kind of symbolizes the start of Amberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01244433835267978011noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8697967492776217409.post-63477589306356945642011-02-07T10:20:04.916-07:002011-02-07T10:20:04.916-07:00great advice.great advice.Rochelle Brunsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12824610739457723401noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8697967492776217409.post-39821107121899174392011-02-07T09:28:29.822-07:002011-02-07T09:28:29.822-07:00Having gotten in a big argument with my friend las...Having gotten in a big argument with my friend last night, and now feeling guilty this morning, I suppose it's not altogether a bad idea:)Barbaloothttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01541675474218507411noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8697967492776217409.post-85344338023022466662011-02-07T08:17:28.645-07:002011-02-07T08:17:28.645-07:00I completely agree! My education in psychology and...I completely agree! My education in psychology and sociology, and personal experience, has pushed this point too. However, I have found that the Christian world typically tends to disagree, sternly, and I have been given a lot of disapproving looks and speeches by some of the older generation for agreeing otherwise. <br /><br />To friends of mine who have gotten engaged, I have offered them 2 Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com