Saturday, May 7, 2011

Author Interview with Annette Lyon

Remember that chocolate cook book I'm giving away this week? You have just a couple of days left to enter. But while we wait to find out the winner let me introduce you to my friend Annette Lyon.

I first met Annette when I signed up to take her two-month-long writing workshop with my pals Susan and Olivia where I learned some of the ins and outs of the writing and publishing world and got all sorts of great tips & tricks to writing and got a lot of encouragement and writing exercise ideas. I've also gotten to see her around at several of the events I've gone to as she's very active in the local author community.

She was kind enough to let me ask her a few questions to share with all of you. Enjoy!






•Q: What was the best advice you got before you were published (or on your writing journey)?
A: Join a critique group. Mine is fantastic, and I wouldn’t be anywhere without them.

• Q: If you could be one of your characters for a day, who would you be and why?
A: Hard one. I put my characters through the wringer, so I don’t know that I’d want to be in their shoes! If pressed, I’d probably say either Tabitha (Tower of Strength) or Bethany (Spires of Stone). They have a level of strength and spunk that I don’t. Tabitha is more like me as far as personality and temperament goes.

• Q: If you could meet one of your characters for lunch who would it be and what would you talk to them about?
A: Probably Abe (House on the Hill). His story in that book grew a ton from the first draft to the end as I learned more about his past. I have a feeling there’s more I don’t know about. He’s my readers’ favorite hero, hands down. I'm not sure why--maybe because he’s so complex?--but he's one of my favorites too.

• Q: What’s been a fun perk of being published?
A: One big perk I didn’t anticipate is the opportunity to meet new people and attend events that wouldn’t have been open to me before. I’ve had the chance to rub shoulders with some pretty amazing people.

Also, it may sound odd after almost a decade, but I still get a bit of a thrill at seeing books on the shelf at a store with my name on them.

• Q: Looking forward to anything in the future? (signing events, new book coming out, conferences attending?)

A: May 7th I find out if I won a Whitney award for my last novel, Band of Sisters. It’s currently a finalist for Best General Novel. At the LDStorymakers conference prior to the award gala, I’ll be teaching three classes, moderating a panel, and running a publisher-attendee event.
Edited to add: CONGRATS to Annette who won the Whitney award for Best General Novel!!

I’m working on several projects right now, although I have no solid release dates for them. I will likely have a fourth book available on the Kindle in the next couple of months. My first two books (out of print elsewhere) are already there, as is my grammar guide. This next one will be a middle-grade fantasy.

•Q: Any upcoming events I can tell my readers about?
A: June will be the 3rd annual Teen Writers Conference, which has been a ball to be part of. I’ll be teaching there as well—and I have teens of my own to bring along, so it’s a mom-kid day!

• Q: Biggest/hardest change since being published? (in writing or life, etc)
A: One of the hardest things is the realization that getting a book contract is not even almost the end of the road. It’s the beginning of an entirely new journey, and if you don’t work just as hard (or even harder—the clock is now ticking with releases and readers waiting), you’ll fall behind and lose what you worked so hard for.

• Q: What’s a good book you’ve read this year that you’d recommend to others?
A: The Book Thief, by Markus Zuzak, was so great. (And it was the first book I bought for my shiny new Kindle!) Beautiful writing, great story, fascinating technique.

I also got to read Variant, by Robison Wells, which is a great YA. It was a pre-press version, so everyone else has to wait until this fall. (A perk to being in a great critique group!)

• Q: If your load was lightened, what is a guilty pleasure you would partake in?
A: Nap. Hire a housekeeper and/or cook. Travel. Get pedicures.

• Q: If you had to rewrite a nursery rhyme which one would you choose/why/how would you make it your own/fun to read?
A: “Old Mother Hubbard” might be fun to novelize. WHY was her cupboard bare? She must have known food had been there—she wouldn’t have checked otherwise. So what happened to it?

Oh gosh those were some great answers! Thanks so much Annette for letting me ask you some questions. Be sure to stop by Annette's blog and if you haven't yet enter to win her cookbook here on my blog!


Friday, May 6, 2011

Thirty before Thirty Bucket List


30 things I’d like to do before I’m 30 (April 3 2012):

1. Travel
2. Take a girls trip.
3. Take a cooking class.
4. Finish writing my novel (I won NaNoWriMo last year but didnt finish the story).
5. Sew 3 projects.
6. Pay off auto loan.
7. Update family blog. (new posts at least twice a month & catch up from last Nov!)
8. Video tape the family/kids more often. (My goal is at least 2 a month.)
9. Compile family videos into dvd home movie (at least one per kid for now).
10. Learn how to play the guitar that I've owned for three years now.
11. Read 30 at least 30 books.
12. Write a letter every month to someone whom I admire.
13. Make a quilt.
14. Redecorate Master Bedroom
15. Write in my journal (at least twice a month).
16. Read a Jane Austen novel.
17. Begin learning Spanish.
18. Travel somewhere in Utah I’ve never been to before. (Zions, Lake Powell, Bear Lake)
19. Make and complete two months of exercise regime.
20. Plan and implement fun summer activities for the kids/family.
21. Get an updated family photo taken.
22. Organize (& dejunk) two rooms in my house. (Or 1 room and my master closet.)
23. Plan a fun friend bbq party.
24. Practice my ASL skills with my children.
25. Plan a fun trip for our 10 year wedding anniversary in January.
26. Try at least 12 new recipes (attempt at least 1 new recipe a month).
27. Hand write a heartfelt thank you note once a week.
28. Update the family's 72 hour kits & practice again emergency plans.
29. Print some of my photography and hang them in the house.
30. Celebrate turning 30 in style!

I wanted to post it the last day in April but still had alot of holes in my list. I think my main problem was that I have to feasibly know I can to do it within the next year which means those bigger "to-do before I die" bucket list items dont really apply to this sorta list. But I did it. The list is done.

A big thank you to those of you who helped me earlier with your great ideas!


What do you think? Have you done a list before? What would you put yours?


[edited to add completions below]




30 things I’d like to do before I’m 30 (April 3 2012):


1. Travel
2. Take a girls trip.
3. Take a cooking class.
4. Finish writing my novel (I won NaNoWriMo last year but didnt finish the story).
5. Sew 3 projects.
6. Pay off auto loan.
7. Update family blog. (new posts at least twice a month & catch up from last Nov!)
8. Video tape the family/kids more often. (My goal is at least 2 a month.)
9. Compile family videos into dvd home movie (at least one per kid for now).
10. Learn how to play the guitar that I've owned for three years now.
11. Read at least 30 books.
12. Write a letter every month to someone whom I admire.
13. Make a quilt.
14. Redecorate Master Bedroom
15. Write in my journal (at least twice a month).
16. Read a Jane Austen novel.
17. Begin learning Spanish.
18. Travel somewhere in Utah I’ve never been to before. (Hopefully Zions, Lake Powell, Bear Lake)
19. Make and complete two months of exercise regime.
20. Plan and implement fun summer activities for the kids/family.
21. Get an updated family photo taken.
22. Organize (& dejunk) two rooms in my house. (Or 1 room and my master closet.)
23. Plan a fun friend bbq party.
24. Practice my ASL skills with my children.
25. Plan a fun trip for our 10 year wedding anniversary in January.
26. Try at least 12 new recipes (attempt at least 1 new recipe a month).
27. Hand write a heartfelt thank you note twice a month.
28. Update the family's 72 hour kits & practice again emergency plans.
29. Print some of my photography and hang them in the house.
30. Celebrate turning 30 in style!

I wanted to post it the last day in April but still had alot of holes in my list. I think my main problem was that I have to feasibly know I can to do it within the next year which means those bigger "to-do before I die" bucket list items dont really apply to this sorta list. But I did it. The list is done.

A big thank you to those of you who helped me earlier with your great ideas!

Original post found here http://bit.ly/l5kFnR



Tuesday, May 3, 2011

Giveaway: Chocolate Never Faileth (cookbook)

Happy Mothers Day!


So dear, wonderful, awesome readers, I'd like to give you all some gifts! Literally that just isn't feasible but I'm going to do my best!

Up for grabs today is:

Chocolate Never Faileth
by Annette Lyon


With over 125 great recipes.
And guess what, it's even SIGNED! Great right?!

Excerpt from the publisher: "Brimming with a delectable assortment ranging from simple treats to show-stopping desserts, the dainty to decadent selections include cakes, cookies, pastries, sauces, candies, ice creams, puddings, brownies, and beverages — along with some unexpected chocolate delights.

Mixed, melted, molded, drizzled, piped, curled, or grated, you’re sure to find the right tantalizing recipe to fill every chocolate lover’s dreams."

To enter: Tell me your favorite dessert.

Additional entries:
(I will be using random.org to pick the winner so it is in your best interest to leave a separate comment for each entry.)

+ Check out Annette's blog and tell me you did (or tell me something awesome you saw/read).
+ Become a fan of Annette's facebook page.
+ Tweet about this contest. (You can copy/paste this: I just entered to win Chocolate Never Faileth by @AnnetteLyon from @Cranberryfries http://bit.ly/kDzfLq .) ONE ENTRY PER DAY you tweet this!
+ Share this contest on your facebook page.
+ Be a follower of this blog.



Contest ends: May 9th 2011.







Monday, May 2, 2011

Marriage Monday: Q&A on Intimacy

Guest blogging today is Julie de Azevedo Hanks, MSW, LCSW with a little Q & A from her website.

I just don't think about sex!

Q: After 10 years of marriage my husband complains that I don’t desire him physically. He feels hurt that I don’t initiate lovemaking and that I’m rarely “in the mood”. I love my husband, find him attractive, but sex rarely crosses my mind. Should I have sex even when I’m not in the mood?

A: The short answer is -- sometimes. Most people assume that sexual desire comes before sexual behavior, and that’s generally the case for men. However, the opposite is true for many women--engaging in sexual activity can awaken sexual desire. Be emotionally open to more frequent sexual encounters with your hubby even if you don’t feel the desire initially.

For many women, sex is a choice to let go -- to let go of inhibitions, of worrying about everyone else, of household or work tasks, and to focus on yourself and your partner. Choose to think about your sweetheart in a romantic and passionate way throughout the day to help prepare emotionally and mentally for intimacy.

Make clear and specific requests to your husband about what he can do to help awaken your sexual desire. Maybe you’d like him to flirt more, talk more, plan more date nights, or initiate non-sexual touch. Also, ask yourself if other potential barriers to sexual intimacy need to be addressed. Relationship stresses, depression, past abuse, health problems, or medication side effects are just a few of the many things that can impact sexual desire and arousal. Consult with your physician or therapist if sexual issues continue.

Julie de Azevedo Hanks, MSW, LCSW is a licensed therapist specializing in relationship counseling and women’s emotional health. In addition to owning Wasatch Family Therapy, she is a wife and mother of 4. For more relationship resources visit www.wasatchfamilytherapy.com or www.juliehanks.com.


A BIG thanks for guest blogging today Julie!


You can find my other Marriage Monday's here.



*Image found with google images.

Monday, April 25, 2011

Marriage Monday: "That," he said, "is the key to our marriage."

I've been reading through a marriage enrichment book and when I came across this cute little story and I just fell in love with the couple and the message. The passage begins by discussing three major ways we can help our spouse and mentions encouragement as one of the key components.

"A couple who were being interviewed on the occasion of their fiftieth wedding anniversary were asked, "To what do you attribute the success of your long marriage?" The husband responded, "Sarah was the first young lady I ever dated. When I proposed her, I was scared stiff. But after the wedding, her dad took me aside and handed me a little package and said, 'Here is all you really need to know.'"
The obvious question was, "And what was in that package?"

Reaching into his pocket, the man pulled out a gold watch and said, 'This is it.' There across the face of the watch, where he could see it a dozen times a day, was written, Say something nice to Sarah. "That," he said, "is the key to our marriage."


Life can sometimes be difficult, but when we receive positive words, we are encouraged to continue pursuing our dreams."

--Excerpt from The Four Seasons of Marriage by Gary Chapman


Great right? I love the wisdom of his new father-in-law. I love that this sweet little old man carried this watch around with him even so many years later. I love that even though it was the same message he was seeing everyday he took it to heart and did it. Everyday. I love that he recognized the importance of encouraging his wife. I love that he realized the huge effect positive interaction had on their marriage.

What did you like about this story?




You can find my other Marriage Monday's here.



*Image found with google images.

Wednesday, April 20, 2011

Eight Years Ago (I Became A Mom)

Eight years ago, it was Easter on April 20th and my first little baby was born.

She's always been curious about the world around her. And kind-hearted.

She loves science, reading and art (she draws like her dad!).

She takes good care of her younger siblings and is a huge help to her mom!

She's very social and friendly. She loves to dance, sing, and play the piano.

Happy 8th Birthday kiddo. I'm sure lucky to be your mom!


*Thanks to Susan Monson Photography for the beautiful photography.

Tuesday, April 19, 2011

W-i-n-n-e-r

Thanks to everyone who entered to win Don Carey's Bumpy Landings.


Congrats to

Nancy!